"Some things are really difficult to let go of, even though they cause discomfort or pain." She commented. "Even when one acknowledges the need to change - one resists it."
"Yes," S-H-E answered with great compassion. "The familiar comfort of known discomfort is sometimes more bearable than the unfamiliar discomfort of unknown comfort."
She smiled and nodded in agreement from personal experience.
"When experiences that causes you pain or suffering are constantly repeating in your life, they are offering you an opportunity to choose a new way. The pain and suffering is reminding you that by choosing to continue in the same way, making the same choices, you will remain in the cycle of pain and suffering." S-H-E continued. "Often the perceived safety of the familiar feels less threatening than change. However, it's important to understand that clinging to the old painful ways simply instils within one an even greater fear of change. And the longer you cling on, the more fearful you'll become of change. And the more fearful you become, the harder it becomes to let go. AND that fear attracts more of that which causes suffering."
"People are often also fearful of isolation, if they make big changes in their lives." She said.
"That can happen. And usually it is temporary. But clinging to the pain and suffering can also isolate you from family and friends too." S-H-E answered. "When change beckons, you step on the precipice alone. Only you can do it! For it is only through trusting the Self, that your step into the unknown will be aligned to your highest good. You may or may not have family and friends who support you in your new choices. Irrespective of this, that leap of trust is yours alone to take. YOU have to want it heart and soul! And what often happens is that when you make those changes, you begin to forge deeper and more meaningful relationships with family and friends. Once others feel the shift in your energy, they feel attracted to your new and more vibrant energy. For as you let go of the pain and suffering, your energy body becomes lighter and you attract others whose energy is also lighter."
"Like attracts like. Or should I say - light attracts light." She smiles.
S-H-E smiles lovingly back. "So true. Such a powerful motivation to make the necessary changes in ones life!"
- Kim Dreyer
Artwork from my Conscious Spirit Oracle Deck
Conversations with S-H-E
Conversations with S-H-E begun early 2018 when S-H-E appeared first in a visionary dream state and then more frequently in meditations and dreams since then. 'Her' name - S-H-E - embodies the essence both SHE and HE; multidimensional states of consciousness between Spirit/Heaven/Earth; Yin-yang and All that is.